When I see the title of the book, I think it would be very boring and plain. General story which anyone can imagine and even write. But while reading the book, the concept the Arbinger group uses in the book is very brilliant-the box.
Normally we don’t know exactly what we did. Just follow our instint and knowledge, and react to the event and situation in the name of characteristics and private style. It’s very difficult to know the fact the issue from ourselves. We are very used to think and decide something in our own way. This situation is “in the box.” Someone who is in the box doesn’t understand others’ status. Because they usually think them as a logical person. This point of view distorts the fact of the event and relationship. Theses series of thoughts on something or someone set grounds for protecting their moderate causes and execuses. This is self-deception.
This book exemplifies several situations that we often experience in our life. These examples give readers to reach implication-“Put you out of the box.” Therefore you will see more various viewpoints and can find a moderate thought to solve your problem.
This book of which the situation is similar to “the Goal” is very short and digestive. Just read it and change yourself.
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